Stranger In a Strange Land
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in honor of the bar mitzvah,<BR>this year b'ezrat Hashem, of our twin sons,
<BR>Michael and Joshua - Steven Weiner and Lisa Wise</SPAN></P>
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ben Moshe Rosenthal, Shmuel Nachamu ben Shlmo Moshe HaKohen Fredman, and Chaya
bat Yitzchak David Fredman, <BR>whose yahrtzeits are this
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in a Strange Land</SPAN></B></P>
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by <st1:PersonName w:st="on" ProductID="Aryeh Dienstag">Aryeh
Dienstag</st1:PersonName></SPAN></P>
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style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi">In
the first section of our <I>parasha</I> there is a striking discussion between
Yaakov and Yosef.<SPAN> </SPAN>Yosef approaches
Yaakov as a son to his father – he speaks to him with reverence, and at the same
time Yaakov bows to Yosef.<SPAN> </SPAN>Yaakov
is Yosef’s father, and Yosef labors to give his father the proper respect.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>At the same time Yaakov bows to Yosef
because Yosef is the ruler in <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region>, and Yaakov shows respect to
the government (Ibn Ezra, 47:31).<SPAN>
</SPAN>Although Yaakov is showing respect to Yosef, we see from the beginning of
the verse that Yaakov is in control of this situation; he is the one, acting as
Yisrael, who says, “Swear to me, and he [Yosef] swore to him” (<I>Bereishit</I>
47:31).</SPAN></P>
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style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi">This
encounter repeats itself in the next section, where Yaakov calls for Yosef
again.<SPAN> </SPAN>Again Yaakov is deferential
to Yosef and again Yaakov is in control of this timeless exchange.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>However, this time Yaakov asks Yosef,
concerning the latter’s sons, “Who are they?”<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>These are the same sons Yaakov will hug
and kiss one verse later! Yaakov is really asking Yosef whether they are worthy
of a blessing.<SPAN> </SPAN>Are they worthy of
entering into <I>Klal</I> <I>Yisrael</I>, or are they Egyptian children?
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style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi">These
interactions illustrate the dynamic between Yaakov and Yosef at this point.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Yosef is the current ruler of
<st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region>.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Yosef has saved the country from
financial ruin and starvation.<SPAN>
</SPAN>Yosef saved his family as well and has supported them for the past
seventeen years. But Yaakov is Yisrael, and he is concerned with the future of
<I>Klal</I> <I>Yisrael</I>.<SPAN>
</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi">The
names Yosef gives his sons represent two different views of Yosef’s stay in
<st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region>.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Ephraim’s name represents that of a
stranger.<SPAN> </SPAN>“<I>Ki hifrani Elokim
be-eretz onyi</I> – God has made me fruitful me in the land of my oppression”
(<I>Bereishit</I> 41:52).<SPAN> </SPAN>Yosef
sees <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region> as <I>eretz</I> <I>onyi</I>,
not his home.<SPAN> </SPAN>On the other hand,
Menasheh’s name represents that of a resident of <st1:place
w:st="on"><st1:country-region w:st="on">Egypt</st1:country-region></st1:place>,
“God has made me forget all my hardship and all of my father’s house”
(<I>Bereishit</I> 41:51).<SPAN> </SPAN>Yosef no
longer sees himself as part of his father’s house.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN></P>
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style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi">When
Yaakov meets Yosef in our <I>parasha</I> he asks, “Who are these?” Are they part
of Mitzrayim or Yisrael?<SPAN> </SPAN>Yaakov
asks Yosef, how do you see yourself, as the ruler of <st1:country-region
w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region>, or a
child of Yisrael?<SPAN> </SPAN>Yaakov puts his
right hand on the head of Ephraim, not Menasheh.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is saying: I like the stance of
“<I>hifrani Elokim be-eretz onyi</I>,” and not “<I>nashani Elokim</I>."<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN></P>
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style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi">Yaakov’s
order to Yosef is along these lines as well.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Yaakov tells Yosef not to bury him in
<st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region>.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Yaakov says that although he has been
staying in <st1:country-region w:st="on">Egypt</st1:country-region> for the past
seventeen years and he is grateful for the seventeen years of support,
<st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region> is not his home.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>He is only a visitor, a temporary
transient, a <I>ger</I> – not a citizen.<SPAN>
</SPAN>Therefore Yaakov demands Yosef return him to <I>Eretz</I> Yisrael to be
buried, and by doing so demonstrates this point.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN></P>
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style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 36pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN
style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
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style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi">Yosef
internalized this message as well.<SPAN>
</SPAN>Yosef was the controller of <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region> – he ruled the country.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>However, at the end he didn’t see
<st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Egypt</st1:place></st1:country-region> as his home; his stay was to be
viewed as temporary as well.<SPAN>
</SPAN>Therefore, Yosef follows Yaakov’s example, and orders his brothers to
bury him in <I>Eretz Yisrael</I> as well.<SPAN>
</SPAN>Finally, Yosef’s request (in light of his vision) was realized, when
Moshe took Yosef’s bones along during the Exodus from <st1:place
w:st="on"><st1:country-region w:st="on">Egypt</st1:country-region></st1:place>.
</SPAN></P>
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style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi">(This
sicha was delivered at seuda shelishit, Shabbat Parashat Vayechi 5766
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